How SEALs Manage Stress

Your alarm system isn’t broken. You just keep hitting snooze.


In the SEAL Teams, we don’t focus on calming operators. We remove uncertainty.

Because of this idiotic hustle culture, a lot of people have submitted to unhealthy levels of stress and anxiety. Rather than eliminating the cause, they try to manage it by calming themselves with meditation apps, doom scrolling on social media, travel, alcohol, and prescription drugs.

When you’re uncertain about your actions, you’re uncertain about the outcomes. And because we’re designed to survive, this uncertainty has our psychology prioritize the search for threats, which releases cortisol into our systems.

That’s actually a good thing. It’s your built-in alarm system. But no matter how many times you hit the snooze button, it’s going to keep going off.

An unresolved threat doesn’t have to be a man with a gun. It can be an unanswered email. An unfinished project. Or the most likely culprit, operating without clarity on your professional, financial, and personal purposes.

Your nervous system doesn’t know the difference. It just knows the threat is unresolved. So it keeps dumping cortisol to keep you on alert, which prevents you from resting and recovering.

This lack of certainty is a big reason ambitious people can’t control their own schedules. That constant presence of cortisol keeps you working nonstop.

→ Instead of breaking to work out, you just keep plowing through your day. 

→ You accept client calls when you’re supposed to be studying.

→ You stay awake past your bedtime. 

That’s why burnout feels endless. There’s no end signal. The body stays on watch. It is closure that drops cortisol faster and more sustainably than comforting ourselves. There can be no closure without certainty.

When you pull the ripcord on a parachute, you go into a state of scanning for threats that doesn’t end until you look up and confirm there’s a good canopy above you. Then you can enjoy the view.

That confirmation is closure. Without it, your body stays on alert. But here’s what’s interesting. A trained skydiver still produces cortisol on every jump. The spike is smaller. Their nervous system still fires, but because they know what a good canopy looks like and exactly what to do if there isn’t one, the alert produces performance and resolves faster. Certainty doesn’t eliminate the cortisol. It turns it into a superpower.

 

PURPOSE + STRATEGY = CERTAINTY

Though the conditions were brutal, SEAL training itself wasn’t stressful because it was predictable. You knew every day that the actions you were going to be in, no matter how painful or seemingly impossible, would lead to the fulfillment of your purpose of becoming a Navy SEAL.

And knowing this allowed you to give it everything you had every day because you were certain you were in the right actions.

That certainty didn’t come from comfort. It came from having a clear purpose and a strategy to fulfill it. The same thing works in your life.

Clear purposes and a strategy to fulfill them convert uncertainty into predictability. And predictability is what tells your nervous system to stand down.

You stop scanning for threats and start scanning for targets. You step into repetition.

Structure stops being a cage and becomes the signal to your body that you know what comes next.

This is behavior science at work. God built it into us. And when we live outside the purposes for which we were created, when our days are fragmented and reactive with insufficient evidence of progress towards our purposes, He lets the friction build until we stop and pay attention.

Eric

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